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How to Stop Obsessing Over Betrayal Details: Understanding Your Nervous System’s Response to Betrayal Trauma
If you're constantly replaying conversations, checking phones, and analyzing every detail of your partner's betrayal, you're not alone. The compulsive need to understand every aspect of what happened is one of the most common responses to betrayal trauma. But...
What Most Advice Gets Wrong About Healing From Betrayal Trauma (And Why It Actually Makes You Feel Worse)
There is a lot of bad advice out there in the realm of betrayal recovery. Scrolling Tik Tok late at night can make you feel confused, and in an even more downward spiral than you were. If one more well-meaning person tells you to "just forgive" or "move on" or...
Rebuilding Marriage After Infidelity
The moment you discover your partner's betrayal, everything you thought you knew about your relationship crumbles. The shock hits first—a physical blow that leaves you breathless. Then comes the grief, the anger, and the overwhelming question that hangs in the air:...
Attachment Wounds from Betrayal: Healing Relationship Hurt
If you're struggling with attachment wounds from betrayal, you're not alone in feeling like your world has been turned upside down. Betrayal doesn't just break trust—it rips through the very foundation of safety in relationships, leaving you questioning everything...
Signs Your Partner Regrets Cheating
If you're reading this, you're probably asking yourself the same agonizing question that keeps so many people awake at night after discovering betrayal: "Are they really sorry, or are they just sorry they got caught?"You're living in the aftermath of betrayal,...
Betrayal and Rage Cycles: Why They Happen and How To Heal
You thought you were making progress. Months had passed since the betrayal, and you'd finally started to feel like yourself again. Then something happens—a song on the radio, a familiar smell, or even just a random Tuesday morning—and suddenly you're back in that...
How Do I Stop Obsessing Over the Affair? A Trauma-Informed Path to Regaining Your Peace
It's 3 AM again, and you're lying awake replaying the same scene over and over. The text messages. The lies. The moment you found out. Your mind races through endless "what ifs" and "how could they" questions, searching for answers that feel just out of reach....
What To Do First Day After Finding Out About Affair
The world has just tilted on its axis. One moment you were living your normal life, and the next, you've discovered that your partner has been having an affair. Your heart is racing, your mind is spinning, and you might feel like you can't breathe. If you're...
Nervous System Healing After Betrayal
When betrayal happens, it doesn't just break your heart—it scrambles your entire nervous system. The shock reverberates through every cell, leaving you feeling like your body has become a stranger. Your heart races at random moments, your stomach stays in knots,...
Interdependence vs Codependency: Finding Yourself While Staying Connected
There's a moment I remember vividly - standing in my kitchen, phone pressed to my ear, heart racing as I listened to someone I loved spiral into their own pain. My chest felt tight, my breathing shallow, and I was reaching to make them feel better even though I was...