Grow in Relationship Blog

After betrayal, one of the most painful questions that surfaces is: Do I stay? Or do I go? And the truth is, there’s no easy answer. You might feel pulled in both directions. Some days, you want to fight for the relationship. On other days, you want to run as far...

One of the most complex parts of betrayal isn’t just what someone else did: it’s what it leaves you questioning about yourself. You might wonder:How did I not see it?Why didn’t I speak up?Can I ever trust my instincts again? It’s painful enough to lose trust in...

If you’ve been betrayed by someone you trusted, and you’re wondering why you're still not okay, you’re not alone. This is what betrayal trauma can do to the body, the mind, and the emotions. Even if time has passed, the pain may still feel fresh. The confusion...

We all want to feel seen, heard, and understood in our relationships. But what happens when a partner shows up consistently, texts regularly, helps around the house, buys thoughtful gifts, and you still feel alone? That quiet, aching loneliness is often a sign that...

Unspoken expectations in relationships are one of the most common—and least understood—causes of disconnection. When we assume our partner should just know what we need, want, or value, we unintentionally set them up to fail. What begins as hope can quietly spiral...

In close relationships, where both people value growth - there’s a fine line between honesty and emotional overreach.  When someone is overwhelmed or vulnerable, it can be tempting to name what’s happening, offer analysis, or push for resolution.  But...

Most people think couples cooking together is just a fun activity. But what if I told you it’s actually a test of your relationship?One person takes charge, directing every move. Another withdraws, becoming the passive assistant.Small criticisms—“That’s not how you...

We’re taught how to drive a car before getting behind the wheel. We take lessons, practice, stall out, and eventually learn how to navigate the road. But when it comes to love, no one teaches us how to have a healthy relationship. And so, we wing it. We rely on...

Moving abroad for love is an exciting but life-changing decision. For K-1 fiancé visa couples, the journey involves more than just paperwork—it’s a complete emotional and psychological transition. Leaving behind family, friends, and a familiar way of life can be...

Watching the survival show Alone, I’m reminded that survival has always been about securing and protecting the resources that keep us alive. On Alone, participants are dropped into the wilderness with only ten items and their wits. They must build a shelter, find...