Most people think couples cooking together is just a fun activity. But what if I told you it’s actually a test of your relationship?One person takes charge, directing every move. Another withdraws, becoming the passive assistant.Small criticisms—“That’s not how you...
We’re taught how to drive a car before getting behind the wheel. We take lessons, practice, stall out, and eventually learn how to navigate the road. But when it comes to love, no one teaches us how to have a healthy relationship. And so, we wing it. We rely on...
Moving abroad for love is an exciting but life-changing decision. For K-1 fiancé visa couples, the journey involves more than just paperwork—it’s a complete emotional and psychological transition. Leaving behind family, friends, and a familiar way of life can be...
Watching the survival show Alone, I’m reminded that survival has always been about securing and protecting the resources that keep us alive. On Alone, participants are dropped into the wilderness with only ten items and their wits. They must build a shelter, find...
Healthy relationships thrive on emotional intelligence. Emotionally intelligent relationships have deep connections, reduce stress, and enhance well-being. On the other hand, emotionally distant or high-conflict relationships can lead to frustration, loneliness,...
Somatic Experiencing for couples offers a unique path to healing and connection. Every couple's journey looks different, and healing happens in the little moments—one layer, one breath, one step at a time, and sometimes the most profound healing occurs in the space...
When you first discover my partner had an affair, time seems to freeze. Those five devastating words change everything in an instant. If you've recently learned your partner had an affair, you're likely experiencing overwhelming emotions and searching for answers....
Many of my clients ask me: "Why do couples have the same fight over and over?" It's one of the most common questions I hear in my practice, and for good reason. Whether it's about dishes, finances, or emotional needs, most couples are trapped in recurring conflicts...
As a relationship coach, I've observed a common pattern: many individuals search for their worth through relationships. This pattern, particularly high-functioning codependency, can significantly impact our ability to form healthy, sustainable connections with...
Learning how to stop arguing with your partner starts with understanding a surprising fact: Research by relationship expert Dr. John Gottman shows that 69% of couples' problems are recurring, meaning most of us are having the same fights over and over again. Why Do...