Love is a journey - let's navigate it together

Relationship Coaching is for couples and individuals who are ready to stop rehashing the same arguments and create a collaborative path together.

 

Begin to finally understand each other and grow in love again.

Feel close to your partner

Be on the same team

Communicate without tension

Relationship Coaching helps couples

Decide whether to stay in the relationship or go separate ways, with love and respect

Recover and heal from a betrayal, such as an affair, with delicate care

Deal with conflicts related to household chores, money or other practical matters

Negotiate a major life decision: a move, career change, kids, etc that both partners can accept

Pro-actively navigate the premarital process so that you have the tools to build a better future

Build lasting intimacy that helps you both be stronger together

There is hope for your relationship.

Where you are now may feel like you’re living with a roommate, solely for the kids, or resigned to separate lives – and you’ll never find your way back. You know there has to be a better way, but you feel disconnected, disillusioned, and stuck.

I help couples who are ready to stop rehashing the same arguments create a more collaborative relationship. Begin to prioritize each other, laugh together, and find joy in the everyday.

 

HOW WE’LL WORK TOGETHER

Develop the skills you need for your relationship to be a supportive, generative place.

Relationship coaching offers you the tools to help improve your communication style, navigate conflict with more ease, and begin to understand each other.

Through the developmental model, you’ll develop ways to connect with more empathy, respect and love. As new pathways begin to emerge, you’ll gain the communication skills your relationship needs to grow into a deeper, more wholesome love.

Whether you’re on the brink of divorce, just discovered your partner is having an affair — or you want to proactively improve your relationship — you don’t have to navigate this alone.

The process

DISCOVER

During our initial discovery call, I’ll ask you more about your reasons for coaching, and answer any questions you may have about the process. This is for you to discover whether it’s a fit, and there are never any obligations to work with me. If you decide to work together, we’ll move to the next step.

JOURNEY

I will ask you to fill a longer questionnaire so that I can get to know you better. Then I will work with you and respond to your needs in a customized program specific to your issues, strenghts and goals. 

GRADUATE

The goal is to help you develop the skills you need in order to move through your relationship with more ease. This will take time, effort and dedication. Through the work we do together, I’ll help you get there so that you no longer need coaching, and can navigate on your own.

These steps will help you move through your relationship with more ease.

Go inward

Begin to understand your role in the cycles of your relationship, so that you can understand yourself more deeply; a necessary step to grow in your relationship.

See the big picture

Recognize your differences alongside the reasons you chose each other. Learn to collaborate and navigate the recognition that you are both separate individuals and members of the same team. 

Slow down

Learn to listen without barriers, with a simple tool that will transform the way you communicate. 

Rewire and grow

Learn new ways to be in your relationship, with weekly practices to enhance your connection. 

THROUGH WORKING TOGETHER YOU’LL BE ABLE TO

Truly listen and share with each other

Honor your boundaries when necessary

Ask for what you want in a clear and respectful way

Repair conflict quickly so that it doesn’t escalate

Deepen your appreciation of each other so that you sustain intimacy over time

My Partner Had an Affair: A Guide to Betrayal Trauma Recovery

When you first discover my partner had an affair, time seems to freeze. Those five devastating words change everything in an instant. If you've recently learned your partner had an affair, you're likely experiencing overwhelming emotions and searching for answers....

Read More

my partner had an affair

Why Do Couples Have the Same Fight Over and Over?

Many of my clients ask me: "Why do couples have the same fight over and over?" It's one of the most common questions I hear in my practice, and for good reason. Whether it's about dishes, finances, or emotional needs, most couples are trapped in recurring conflicts...

Read More

From High-Functioning Codependency to Self-Connection

As a relationship coach, I've observed a common pattern: many individuals search for their worth through relationships. This pattern, particularly high-functioning codependency, can significantly impact our ability to form healthy, sustainable connections with...

Read More

high-functioning codependency

How to Have a Mindful Relationship

In today's fast-paced world, cultivating a mindful relationship can be the cornerstone of a lasting, fulfilling partnership. But what exactly does it mean to have a mindful relationship, and how can we nurture one? Let's explore this concept using relationship...

Read More

mindful relationship

3 Ways Mindfulness for Couples Can Grow Your Relationship

Love relationships are inherently complex; despite our best intentions, they often come with a fair share of challenges. When we commit to a partner, we rarely anticipate the potential conflicts, miscommunications, and suffering that may arise. As our deepest...

Read More

mindfulness for couples

Mastering Pre-Marital Issues Through Mindfulness Strategies

As couples prepare for marriage, they may encounter various pre-marital issues that can cause stress and uncertainty. These issues can range from financial concerns and family dynamics to communication difficulties and differing expectations. However, by...

Read More

pre-marital issues